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Handling Life

Hmmm ... it hasn't really been THAT long, has it?

Obviously, I'm not sticking to my New Year's resolutions.

So, i think i posted that I'm a computer lab teacher now ... just Mondays and Fridays. Getting used to being a working mom again has been difficult, and as if that wasn't hard enough, I'm now a long-term sub on Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays in a first grade classroom.

I will say I'm surprised at how much I'm enjoying being back in the classroom. I do LOVE teaching, and first grade is what I'm best at ... but I will be extremely happy when the teacher's maternity leave is over, and I get my life back :)

I spend so much of my life in "catch-up" mode. Always catching up on:
  • laundry
  • grocery shopping
  • cleaning
  • home projects
  • work stuff

Seems like life is a whirlwind of activity. Ashley has gymnastics for the month of March (I told her she'll have to take April off 'cause I'll be a basketcase by then ;)) Mondays and Wednesdays immediately after picking them up from school. Carlos has baseball practice on Tuesdays. Thursdays Ashley has church in the evening. Then throw in a baseball game during the week.

So, I guess the lesson I'm learning is ... what a shocker: I'm actually NOT a "supermom." that I have limitations, and that's okay.

  • that if we have pasta for dinner five nights in a row 'cause that's what we had on hand and it's quick and simple ... that's okay.
  • if the house isn't cleaned every week 'cause we haven't been home enough to do it ... that's okay (for now)
  • if we run out of supplies because i haven't had a chance to make it to the store ... that's okay.

I must say I'm surprised at how well I'm handling the fact that life is going to be chaotic for a while. Let's pray it continues :)

Comments

Samantha said…
I've missed you reading about you Friend, but I can see now that you've been WAY too busy!! I hope things calm down soon, and until they do, I'll be praying that you continue to handle it well! :)
Anonymous said…
I know how you feel and have been there! Sometimes we end up eating out because I haven't had time to go to the grocery store! Sad, isn't it? Hang in there!
tjep said…
Hi Carmela!
I think you are doing a maah-velous job! And I agree...we are not super moms and that is more than OK! Make sure you take deep breaths and relax! This is what life is all about!

Love,
Teena

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