Skip to main content

Leadership Attitude

So often, when I sit down to settle in with God's Word, whether it be my One-Year Bible reading of the day, a particular Bible Study, or some other impetus to read the Bible, I beg God to give me some new insight or revelation.  Sometimes I feel so guilty, like I'm so selfish, begging God for more and more of Him.  Then I try to talk myself out of it because I am pretty sure that God never feels that way.  I'm pretty sure He likes us to want more of Him on a regular basis.

Then there are those times when He reveals some weakness that He is trying to help me overcome. Those are not the "fun" days of revelation.  He's always so gentle and respectful in His admonishment, but it is still difficult to receive.  That is how I feel about His latest revelation to me.  *sigh*

In my effort to focus on Him this summer, I have finished one Bible Study (Joshua), am beginning another Bible Study (Beth Moore--Daniel), and am beginning my own private study on Nehemiah. God has slowly been bringing to light three different leadership styles:  Moses, Joshua, and Nehemiah.  I won't go into detail here (it would be a SUPER LONG post), but I will give the overview of what God is showing me.

#1:  If He calls me into a leadership position, He expects me to own it and embrace it.  Period.  Do it in fear and trembling, but fake it till I make it.  Anything less is doing Him an injustice and not showing gratitude that He has chosen to use ME (with all my foibles and weaknesses) over anyone else for that particular task.  Ouch.  Okay.  Point taken.  At this point of my Christian walk, I have a responsibility to teach people about the Lord if He opens the doors for that.

#2:  If I show weakness or self-doubt, I will sabotage what God has called me to accomplish.  People will sense my self-doubt, and will then doubt me as a leader.  I will then have very few faithful followers, and/or people will constantly question my choices, opinions, and decisions as a leader.  And who could blame them?  I will probably be doubting my own choices.  I will constantly fight against this mentality of doubt in myself and others.

#3:  True leaders inspire people to follow them wholeheartedly.  Keyword:  INSPIRE
I believe that Joshua was very scared at the end of Moses' life and the beginning of his leadership, despite the fact that he had taken on various leadership roles during the forty years in the desert. Several times he is told by Moses, the Lord, and the people to be "strong and courageous."  People only need reminders to be courageous if they are afraid to do something.  HOWEVER, he NEVER showed weakness.  From the very beginning of the book of Joshua, when God told him, "Command the people ..." he did it.  I really got a sense that he did it with a calm boldness, authority, and confidence that I don't believe he felt at the beginning.  However, the Israelites heard the tone of authority and confidence, and did everything he asked without question.

The same can certainly NOT be said of Moses, although there were other circumstances that contributed to the constant rebellion in his time.  It IS true that Moses doubted himself from the very beginning (at the burning bush).  I believe part of his problem was that the Israelites sensed his self-doubt, and that contributed somewhat to the rebellion he constantly faced.

Nehemiah is interesting, because it seems to me that he seemed extremely confident and even excited about his God-appointed responsibility to rebuild Jerusalem.  It was a daunting task, and he faced extreme opposition, but he never wavered, never doubted, never crumbled under pressure.  When the Israelites who were under him began to complain, doubt, and crumble, he always found a solution to the opposition and inspired and encouraged them.

I would like to be a Nehemiah, but right now I'm a Moses.  I'm going to work on my "leadership confidence," though!  :)  There IS hope for me because nothing is impossible with our God!

Here's a video clip entitled, "Think God Can't Use You?"  I find it inspirational.  I hope you do, too.  :)

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

A Rare Moment Captured on Film

No, it's not a rare moment that my kids brush their teeth (well, it would be if left up to them!). I walked into the bathroom tonight to see both my kids in the bathroom brushing their teeth ... and this is the rare moment--they actually got along! I had to run and get my camera to document this rare moment of parental bliss. And now I'm sharing it with you. Now isn't your day more complete?!

Just another day ...

Today was a full day. The workers put in our patio door ... sooooooooo excited to have this door!!! The pictures look much less than impressive b/c I didn't take time to play around with them in Photoshop (CSI: Miami is on so I'm glued to the T.V, plus I have a huge load of laundry to fold still). I'm so thrilled to have this door that, good pic or not, I have to share. Like I said, we've never done anything like this before, so every little thing excites me beyond belief :-D They worked on it all day, having to break out a rather large section of the wall, take out a window and door, and move our electrical outlet and porch light. And as you can tell, they have to finish tomorrow. This is the view from the inside: This is the view from the outside: It was strange to have them in my house. But apparently, in deference to my "feminine ears," they decided to refrain from using their Spanish cuss words. That was nice :) Plus our washer is on the blink (has bee

"Cool" Lunch

I usually make Ashley take her lunch three days out of the week (she "gets" to buy on the other two days, even though she doesn't actually eat the food--part of the whole "fit in with the crowd" issue) . I was having a SERIOUSLY hard time getting her to bring her lunch, and it occurred to me one day that if she took "fancier" sandwiches, she might not fight it so much. So ... I started making Chicken Salad and getting various toppings (she likes the jars of roasted peppers, pepperoncinis, alfalfa sprouts, tomato, etc.) as well as buying bolillos or other fancier sandwich breads. That went over well. It went over so well that her friends would ask for a taste, and rave about how yummy the sandwich was. They were actually jealous of Ashley's lunch (yeah! now she won't be the "geek" who brings her lunch; she'll be the girl who brings cool lunches--mission accomplished and then some!) . One of her friends I know rather well, because