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Bravery 102--How to acquire it

One of the admirable qualities that so strikes me about this author is his ability to methodically teach bravery in a very practical way.  I so appreciate that.  Personally, his points of view reassure me that I'm on the right track--I just need to practice more.

Want to be braver?  Here are his main requirements for being brave:

  • Force yourself to push past your fears and do what you need to do.  Just force yourself.
  • Keep putting yourself in a position where you are required to push past that fear.
  • Sometimes, start small and work your way up to bigger challenges.
  • Practice overcoming your fears--over and over and over and over.  Thousands of times.
  • Visualize yourself succeeding.
See?  Any one of us can do this!  It's not some complicated formula or something that requires herculean strength (well, maybe herculean strength of character--but that will come in time!).

He also points out that bravery definitely builds confidence ... and who doesn't want more of that?!?!  :)

He closes the chapter with a sobering, extremely true analysis of America.  We, as a nation, have become way too comfortable, way too "soft" (as he puts it).  We are quickly becoming unprepared as a nation to deal with adversity.  We balk at the slightest discomfort.  I have thought that for a while now.  I'm scared that if our nation has to deal with a serious disaster (like America did during the Depression), we--individually and collectively, will fall apart.  If that happens, we will have to take a crash course in bravery.

I pray (literally) that this book will spark a movement that will drive this point home to Americans.   So many more Americans need to understand this in order for us to become braver as a nation.

In closing, I have two Christian lyric videos for you to listen to in your quest to master bravery.  I hope they encourage you.  :)

Ta Ta!

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